Frank Ocean Is Gay, Comes Out The Closet In Letter To Fans

Frank Ocean Is Gay, Comes Out The Closet In Letter To Fans

For the past few days, there has been rumors that Frank Ocean is bi-sexual or gay after members of the media heard content from his new album Channel Orange at listening sessions and took some of the album’s content as himself coming out of the closet. Today, Frank Ocean has came out publicly in a written letter to his fans, telling a story about his first love, which was with a man he met four years ago and shared the same bed with at the age of 19.

We’re all a bunch of golden million dollar babies. My hope is that the babies born these days will inherit less of the bullshit than we did. Anyhow, what I’m about to post is for anyone who cares to read. It was intended to fill the thank you’s section in my album credits, but with all the rumors going round…I figured it’d be good to clarify…

Gay, Straight or Bi, we recognize Frank Ocean for his undeniable talent, and won’t judge his personal life or preference.

Read Frank Ocean‘s coming out of the closet letter opening up to his listeners about his sexual preference which clarifies that he is in fact gay, meant to be revealed in his album’s credits after the jump.

Frank Ocean Is Gay, Comes Out The Closet In Letter To Fans

Frank Ocean comes out of the closet, revealing that he is gay in an open letter to his fans on his Tumblr account.

“Whoever you are, wherever you are… I’m starting to think we’re a lot alike. Human beings spinning on blackness. All wanting to be seen, touched, heard, paid attention to. My loved ones are everything to me here. In the last year or 3 I’ve screamed at my creator, screamed at the clouds in the sky. For some explanation. Mercy maybe. For peace of mind to reign like manna somehow. 4 summers ago, I met somebody. I was 19 years old. He was too. WE spent that summer, and the summer after, together. Everyday almost. And on the days we were together, time would glide. Most of the day I’d see him, and his smile. I’d hear his conversation and his silence until it was time to sleep. Sleep I would often share with him. By the time I realized I was in love, it was malignant. It was hopeless. There was no escaping, no negotiation with the feeling. No choice. It was my first love, it changed my life. Back then, my mind would wander to the women I had been with, the ones I cared for and thought I was in love with. I reminisced about the sentimental songs I enjoyed when I was a teenager. The ones I played when I experienced a girlfriend for the first time. I realized they were written in a language I did not yet speak. I realized too much, too quickly. Imagine being thrown from a plane. I wasn’t in a plane though. I was in a Nissan Maxima, the same car I packed up with bags and drove to Los Angeles in. I sat there and told my friend how I felt. I wept as the words left my mouth. I grieved for them, knowing I would never take them back for myself. He patted my back. He said kind things. He did his best, but he wouldn’t admit the same. He had to go back inside soon, it was late and his girlfriend was waiting for him upstairs. He wouldn’t tell me the truth about his feelings for me for another 3 years. I felt like I’d only imagined reciprocity for years. Now imagine being thrown from a cliff. No, I wasn’t on a cliff, I was still in my car telling myself it was gonna be fine and to take deep breaths. I took the breaths and carried on. I kept up a peculiar friendship with him because I couldn’t imagine keeping up my life without him. I struggled to master myself and my emotions. I wasn’t always successful.

The dance went on. I kept the rhythm for several summers after. It’s winter now. I’m typing this on a plane back to Los Angeles from New Orleans. I flew home for another marred Christmas. I have a window seat. It’s December 27, 2011. By now I’ve written two albums, this being the second. I wrote to keep myself busy and sane, I wanted to create worlds that were rosier than mine. I tried to channel overwhelming emotions. I’m surprised at how far all of it has taken me. Before writing this I’d told some people my story. I’m sure these people kept me alive, kept me safe. Sincerely. These are the folks I wanna thank from the floor of my heart. Everyone of you knows who you are. Great humans, probably angels. I don’t know what happens now, and that’s alright. I don’t have any secrets I need kept anymore. There’s probably some small shit still, but you know what I mean. I was never alone, as much as I felt like it. As much as I still do sometimes. I never was. I don’t think I ever could be. Thanks. To my first love, I’m grateful for you. Grateful that even though it wasn’t what I hoped for and even though it was never enough, it was. Some things never are. And we were. I won’t forget you. I won’t forget the summer. I’ll remember who I was when I met you. I’ll remember who you were and how we’ve both changed. and stayed the same. I’ve never had more respect for life and living than I have right now. Maybe it takes a near death experience to feel alive. Thanks. To my mother. You raised me strong. I know I’m only brave because you were the first. So thank you. All of you. For everything good. I feel like a free man. If I listen closely… I can hear the sky falling too.”

-Frank Ocean

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  • _xCharlieBmore_

    @iSdot_Official yeah i saw it .

  • Chris Hamm

    Bi, not gay

  • Chris Hamm

    Bi, not gay

  • Allen Williams

    same shit, pauser=, unpause. but whatever floats his boat. I’ve never listened to his music and won’t. If he creates something that’s cold, which would probably need a feature, [i don’t think many rappers would get on a track with him] it wont be getting spins on my iTunes

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    Chris Hamm same thing.

  • Allen Williams

    Rock with FEMS Magazine

  • Chris Hamm

    It’s not the same thing. He likes women too.
    He’s only been with the one guy. He’s been with multiple women

  • nadinethestig

    @kylefall love it. talent is the same. respect is just higher

    • kylefall

      @nadinethestig You have to admire the courage and honesty. Plus personally, I think it was pretty obvious.

    • kylefall

      @nadinethestig Not too many straight dudes have sets of lungs like that!

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  • Kate Jane S

    Your link title is sort of harsh lol

  • MrSmarterChild

    @freshnewtracks this is so dope

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  • LOVE123

    Wow i Still love you frank ocean weather you are GAY BI-SEXUAL OR STRAIGHT who cares wat you are as long as i kno your real strong and a human being cuz no human is perfect I sopport you  all the way cuz i am BI-SEXUAL

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  • Amy

    This was like so amazing for someone to be so clear about how they feel and who they know they are so HIGH FIVE FRANK OCEAN lol

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  • favorite fan

    THIS actually made me cry not because of my sympathy towards him but simply the way he wrote this letter from the begining to the end like a book or poem its soo beautifully thought out and the ending really made me bawl I love you frank ocean